Grandma's Hungarian Stuffed Cabbaage

This is the family recipe for Hungarian stuffed cabbage.  I watched my grandmother teach it to Mom.  There were no quantities, just a little of this and some of that. It was never just the way grandma made it  Mom taught it to me, but it lacked a little something.  Over the past few batches, I've made adjustments to the quantities and have restored it to its former glory.  This was the best batch since grandma last made it over thirty years ago.